So you say you want the best of the best? God's Best?
Meaning, you want a guy who will treat you like a Queen, you want a Man who keeps God first, someone who loves you more than he loves himself, someone who will give you their last, someone who listens to you and appreciates everything that you do for them, someone who opens your door and rubs your feet after a long day, someone who uses wisdom and watches what he says when communicating with you, someone who has a divine mission in the Kingdom of God to get under, someone who is trustworthy, well mannered, someone who's attributes surpass their physical characteristics, someone who will hold you accountable, someone who is able to push you closer to Christ, someone who will be a great father, someone who helps out around the house, someone who gets along with your family, someone who is so passionate about what they do for the Lord, someone who is eager to seek God's will for his life, someone who is so diligent, someone who is comforting, sweet, gentle, kind, someone who is humble, someone who is not stubborn and has self-control, someone who calls you beautiful each morning, someone who cooks you breakfast from time to time, someone who does their very best not to hurt you, someone who is the strength in your weakness, someone who smells nice, someone who is patient in pursuing you and loves everything about you, flaws and all......
Now I'm not talking about the kind of guy who doesn't exist and will only exist if you allow him to, which is the type of guy who is handsome, cute, nice body, twelve pack, straight teeth, pretty eyes, athletic, who "goes to church", has lots of money and all sorts of things that will only keep you busy while he is talking to some other woman in another country.
I'm talking about the real deal, God's best, the one that only exist because God created Him for you, His chosen one for YOU, the one that he shaped and formed in his mother's womb just for you! The one who may be a little different but is your perfect match?
If you're ready for him, answer these questions first.
What makes you a woman that should be treated so? Do you treat yourself how you're supposed to be treated? Because if you don't know, how will you be able to recognize better treatment from your man? How will you be able to pray with him when you barely pray yourself? Do you allow God to give you what you truly deserve or do you allow yourself to get in the way of receiving the "best of the best" from the One who created you? How do you see yourself? Do you even see yourself as worthy? Do you see yourself as fearfully and wonderfully created? In other words, do you
What makes you qualified for the best?
What is your resume saying?
In the skills section, does it read....
- knows how to be seductive
- knows how to be manipulative
- very skilled in being bitter and non-submissive
- likes to talk back and snap neck
- experience in being a Jezebel
- experience in carrying unforgiveness
- experience in sleeping with "randoms" as Heather Lindsey says
- experience in letting my flesh get the best of me
- experience in being a Delilah
- experience in mistreating others and being messy
- experience in "turning heads"
You say that you want a man who is consistent in doing these things, but are you? Sis, who's the hypocrite here?
Now we already understand that you're not perfect, I'm not perfect, and pretty much no one is perfect but Jesus Himself. But when you ask for the best, God's best,...are you even striving to be the best for "the best"? You're steady worrying about what your man needs to have in line and how he should act, but what about you and your actions? Now I'm not saying that you're not supposed to pray for your future husband and ask God what you desire to see in Him. But sister girl, you must have forgotten that God knows everything that you need, and along with that, He knows the desires of your heart. God is literally the perfect match maker, and when it's time for you to meet your perfect match, you'll be satisfied with God's choice. But the question is, do you trust God, His decisions and ability to hook you up with someone who is just perfect for you?
So where is your focus? Is it on seeking God's will for your life? Is it on allowing God to release you from soul ties, unforgiveness, hurt, and pain?
Because everything that you desire (the best) must first manifest in your life before God brings some one along who is the best to "add" to you. How can you expect someone to treat you like a Queen when you can't even see yourself as such? You can't expect great when you're not producing fruit in your own vineyard. Whatever you sew is what you will produce until you analyze what's in your own backyard. In other words, if you treat yourself like a $5.99 chick, you'll get treated like so, and you'll keep attracting that same type of guy!
God is not going to release your king until you are well prepared to be his queen. God has not released the best because he is protecting him from being manipulated and mistreated. God is protecting you from your man because, maybe he isn't "the best" just yet, maybe he is still "UNDER-CONSTRUCTION" just like you are. So be honest with yourself. Are you ready for Gods best? Or will you mess it up 5 days after you say "I Do"?
[When you do meet him, he still won't be perfect, God will deliver him in a perfectly imperfect package with a bow on him, but at that moment, he will be the best that he can be for you]
Get before the Lord sis, seek Him diligently, let Him show you your heart, let Him cleanse you of everything that would keep you further away from Him and your husband, Do you even know what the best is? let God be your husband so you'll know exactly who your husband should strive to be, let God show you His best so you'll be able to recognize the best that He has for you, be loved by God so that you can receive love from your husband, see yourself as beautiful, be made whole, let God fill every void, let Him take control, trust God and His choices, trust that He knows what's best for you, ask God to show you you before He gives you "him". Strive to be the best in God so that He can release the best to you sis.
Be worth pursuing....be more than qualified...seek to be extraordinary, be exceptional
love you dearly,
Taylor Simon
